How to Prepare for a Divorce in Vermont
July 1, 2024

Going through a divorce is never easy. It’s often an emotionally charged and complex process that requires careful preparation and understanding. If you are considering a divorce in Vermont, taking the time to prepare can help you manage this challenging period with greater ease and confidence. 


Here are a few essential steps to help you prepare for a divorce in Vermont.


1. Understand Vermont Divorce Laws


Vermont is a no-fault divorce state, meaning that you do not need to prove wrongdoing by your spouse to file for divorce. Instead, you can file for divorce based on "irreconcilable differences" that have caused the breakdown of the marriage.

In Vermont, at least one spouse must have lived in the state for six months before filing for divorce, and a final divorce decree can be granted after one year of residency. Understanding these basic requirements will help you determine when and where to file for divorce.


2. Gather Financial Documents


Financial matters are a significant aspect of any divorce. Start by gathering all relevant financial documents, including:

  • Bank statements
  • Tax returns (last three years)
  • Pay stubs
  • Credit card statements
  • Mortgage statements
  • Retirement account statements
  • Investment account statements


Having these documents organized and readily available will help you and your attorney assess your financial situation and develop a fair division of assets and debts.


3. Assess Your Financial Situation


Once you have gathered your financial documents, take the time to assess your financial situation. Create a budget that outlines your monthly income and expenses. This will help you understand your financial needs and how your divorce might impact your standard of living. Consider consulting with a financial advisor to help you plan for your financial future post-divorce.


4. Consider Your Living Arrangements


Deciding where you will live during and after the divorce is important. If you and your spouse own a home together, you will need to decide whether one of you will stay in the home or if you will sell it and divide the proceeds. Consider the financial implications of maintaining your current living arrangements and explore alternative options if necessary.


5. Prioritize Your Children’s Well-being


If you have children, their well-being should be your top priority. Start thinking about custody arrangements and how you can co-parent effectively. Consider how your children's routines, schooling, and activities will be affected by the divorce. Developing a parenting plan that prioritizes your children’s needs can help provide stability during this transitional period.


6. Consult with a Divorce Attorney


Consulting with an experienced divorce attorney is one of the most important steps you can take to prepare for your divorce. A knowledgeable attorney can help you understand your rights and responsibilities, guide you through the legal process, and advocate for your best interests. They can also help you negotiate a fair settlement and handle any disputes that may arise.


7. Take Care of Your Emotional Health


Divorce can be emotionally draining, so it’s critical to take care of your emotional well-being. Seek support from friends, family, or a therapist to help you cope with the stress and emotions that come with divorce. Taking care of your mental health will enable you to make more rational decisions and approach the divorce process with a clearer mind.


8. Plan for the Future


While it may be difficult to think about the future during a divorce, planning ahead can help you move forward more confidently. Consider your long-term goals and how your divorce will impact them. Whether it’s pursuing new career opportunities, moving to a new location, or focusing on personal growth, having a plan for your future can provide a sense of direction and hope.


Contact Deppman Law, PLC Today 


If you are contemplating a divorce and need professional guidance, the skilled family lawyers at Deppman Law, PLC can help. Our experienced divorce team is here to help you through every step of the process, ensuring your rights are protected and your best interests are represented. Contact us today to schedule a confidential consultation, and take the first step toward a brighter future.


June 20, 2025
Estate planning may sound like something only the wealthy or elderly need to worry about, but in truth, it’s an essential part of life planning for every adult—regardless of age, wealth, or family structure. Whether you're a small business owner in Montpelier, a retiree in Middlebury, or a young parent in Burlington, having a clear and legally sound estate plan can protect your loved ones, preserve your assets, and provide peace of mind. In Vermont, as in most states, there are five core documents that form the foundation of a comprehensive estate plan. Each plays a specific role in ensuring your wishes are respected and your affairs are handled according to your preferences—both during your lifetime and after your death. Here’s a closer look at the five essential estate planning documents every Vermonter should have: 1. Last Will and Testament A will is the cornerstone of any estate plan. It outlines how you want your assets to be distributed after your death and names an executor to manage your estate. If you have minor children, your will is also the document where you nominate a guardian for them. Without a will, your estate will be distributed according to Vermont’s intestacy laws—which may not reflect your wishes. This process can be time-consuming, emotionally draining for your family, and lead to unintended outcomes. Even if your estate is modest, a will ensures clarity and can help your loved ones avoid unnecessary legal complications during an already difficult time. 2. Durable Power of Attorney A durable power of attorney (POA) allows you to name someone to handle your financial and legal affairs if you become incapacitated. This could include paying your bills, managing investments, filing taxes, or making other important decisions on your behalf. In Vermont, a POA remains in effect even if you become mentally or physically unable to manage your own affairs—hence the term durable. Without a POA, your loved ones may have to go through a costly and time-consuming court process to gain the authority to act on your behalf. Choosing a trusted agent now can spare your family considerable stress later. 3. Advance Directive for Health Care Also known as a health care proxy or medical power of attorney, an advance directive allows you to appoint someone to make medical decisions for you if you are unable to do so yourself. This includes decisions about life-sustaining treatments, organ donation, and end-of-life care. Vermont has a specific form for advance directives, and completing one ensures your health care wishes are known and legally binding. Without this document, important medical decisions may fall to someone who doesn’t know your preferences—or disagreements among family members could create unnecessary tension. 4. HIPAA Authorization The Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act (HIPAA) protects the privacy of your medical records, but it can also make it difficult for loved ones to access information in an emergency. A HIPAA authorization allows you to name individuals who can access your medical records and communicate with your doctors. This is especially important if you have multiple family members who may need to coordinate your care or advocate on your behalf. Without this document, your loved ones may be left in the dark at a time when fast, informed decisions are critical. 5. Revocable Living Trust (Optional, But Strongly Recommended) While not every Vermonter needs a revocable living trust, it can be a powerful tool—especially if you own real estate, have a blended family, or want to avoid probate. A revocable living trust allows you to transfer ownership of your assets into a trust during your lifetime, with instructions for how they should be managed and distributed. You retain control of the assets while you're alive, and after your death, they can be distributed without going through the Vermont probate process. A trust also provides greater privacy, flexibility, and control, and can be particularly helpful for managing out-of-state property or planning for incapacity. Take Control of Your Legacy Estate planning isn’t just about preparing for the unexpected—it’s about making intentional decisions that protect your family, safeguard your assets, and reflect your values. At Deppman Law PLC, we help individuals and families throughout Vermont create customized estate plans that meet their specific needs—no matter how simple or complex. Whether you’re starting from scratch or need to update existing documents, we’re here to guide you through every step with care and clarity. Contact Benj or Lesley today to schedule a consultation and begin building your estate plan with confidence.
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